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Pianist and DMA, Juilliard School

I initially began coaching because my boyfriend, a big fan of Astrid's, saw that I was confused about a lot of things regarding the direction my life was taking career-wise.  He purchased five coachings for me for my birthday with the caveat that nothing was binding and that I could opt out any time if I felt uncomfortable.  From my very first session, it was clear that Astrid is one of the most insightful and generous people I have met.  I walked into this session last fall, thinking that I had come to a dead-end in my music career and that perhaps I would benefit from heading in a new direction.  After only a couple sessions, I renewed my sense of love for music and began to see possibilities for myself that I never dreamed of.  Astrid is extremely dedicated and focused in each session.  One major breakthrough I have had is the idea that being authentic is a major value for me and that I have spent so much of my life trying to please others or do activities I feel like I "should" do.  I feel like I have blossomed in so many ways this year, taking on creative projects that I might have been cautious of before, meeting incredible colleagues, and being excited about the future instead of fearful of it.  Astrid has a great gift of seeing the beauty in each person and allowing their strengths to come through.

— JC, New York, NY

 

Composer

Astrid has turned around the way I look at my career in the most extraordinary way.  I used to think that the professional part of what I do was very separate from the creative and deeply personal aspects of being a composer.  Going after professional opportunities to get my music out there felt to me like a very daunting task--one that I found a little distasteful because it felt like "selling myself."  Astrid really helped me realize that building a career has to come from the most genuine part of myself--in the same way as building a piece.  With this understanding, the professional world looks much less scary to me now, and I'm able to reach out to my professional network with the courage of my conviction, and with the kind of personal investment and care that makes professional experiences deeply meaningful.  Career building is about believing in what you do, and its validity; it is about communication and courage.  It only works if it feels true to who you are.

With her supportive and positive attitude combined with her incredible sensitivity and intelligence, Astrid has created for me a wonderful safe space to discover how I want to develop my goals from the inside out.  I have found in her a true kindred spirit as well as a powerful ally and coach.  

—Hannah L,. New York, NY


 

 

Attorney and ??????

There seem to be an infinite number of resources available to people looking to make career changes these days, and I think I looked into most of them before I met Astrid. Numerous books advised me to do what I loved.  That sounded good, except that I didn’t know what I loved. A career test provided some insight and long lists of possibly compatible jobs, but ultimately directed me to do what I loved - back to square one.  Another career coach, dispensing with frivolities like love, laid out a practical approach to a career path that objectively made some sense, but I knew in my heart that I would hate it.  I felt deficient for not knowing what I loved, unreasonable for rejecting a sensible path that didn’t appeal, and in general, completely hopeless about my situation.

When I began coaching with Astrid, I was struggling with a strong feeling that there was some ‘perfect’ thing out there for me to do, if only I could think of what it was.  I had a vague idea that finding the answer would involve going through the racks of possible jobs and holding each one up in front of the mirror to see if it might fit, but I was pleasantly surprised to find that we would take a more bespoke approach.  There would be no squeezing me into a readymade career in this process - instead, we would be focusing on my strengths, values, work style, etc., to think about what might be right for me.  Astrid’s willingness to cheerfully abandon any exercise that wasn't working for me kept me comfortable with everything we did, and helped me to get the most out of the process.  

The work we did helped me to form a foundation for understanding why certain things, career-related or otherwise, are a better choice for me than others.  With Astrid’s warm encouragement, I have also started to reconnect with the creative, less self-limiting side of myself that I feared was permanently lost.  I feel more like myself than I have in a long time, and I have a career direction that I am looking forward to exploring.  This may or may not turn out to be the ‘perfect thing‘ that I was looking for, but I no longer feel the pressure of that search; rather, I am hopeful that by taking actions that are consistent with my character, staying open to the possibilities that arise with each action, and correcting my course as necessary, I will enjoy the process just as much as whatever result I reach.  I am grateful to Astrid for helping me to readjust my direction and my outlook, and I highly recommend her services to anyone who feels lost, stuck or anything less than wholeheartedly enthusiastic about what they are doing.   

— Andrea K., New York, NY

 

Cellist and music entrepreneur

A good friend recommended I see Astrid because I was stuck. Stuck. Stuck. Stuck, and suffering. She has helped me parse through all the detail in what seemed panoramic hopelessness. She has worked in a distinctly different way than my psychotherapist, more pragmatically, and the combination of the two ... has been, for me, very effective. I have made tectonic shifts in the way I see myself, my place in the world and how I move through it. There have been some very painful changes and realizations, but most important, I have found a source for joy, hope and energy, undiluted by difficulties, so that I actually feel better, and stronger. This is my testimony to Astrid.

— TM, Rhode Island

 

 

Educator

Astrid Baumgardner is a true facilitator, and in that capacity she has guided me to discover the values and deeply held beliefs essential to my happiness and fulfillment in the workplace, wherever it may be....Through our coaching sessions, I was able to draw out and fortify my self-confidence, without which my ambitious relocation would not previously have been conceivable. When you are determined to strive diligently for change in your life, Astrid will be there to help you to create a roadmap to navigate and overcome every obstacle you encounter throughout your life-altering transition.

— MH, New York, NY and Tokyo, Japan

 

 

Discover Your Life Purpose in 4 Steps and Supercharge Your Search For Fulfillment

Do you feel stuck in your life right now? 

Do you have that unsettling feeling that you know that you can do more with yourself but you are not sure where to turn?

Do you long to be successful (however you define that success) but you do not know where to begin?

If you are someone who seeks deep fulfillment in life and longs for true success, you may need a Life Purpose Statement. This is one of the keys to success in life since discovering your purpose will give you a sense of clarity around what you want to achieve, a sense of direction in where to start and the motivation to make it happen. Learn the four-step process that will lead you to discover your life purpose and supercharge your search for fulfillment.


How to Discover Your Life Purpose

Your life purpose is a function of knowing what gives you joy, what your gifts are and how you want to impact other people. You can discover your life purpose by following this 4-step process:

1. Stories of Joy
Think about the times in your life when you felt truly joyful and in the flow. These can be experiences from your professional life, your education, your relationships, your personal development work, your community service and your leadership activities.

Be sure to look beyond the workplace, especially if you are feeling unfulfilled in your career. Go back to your childhood and remember what you loved to play at. Look at your hobbies and the things that you wish you could spend all your time doing. Choose 3-5 experiences that represent you at your best.

2. Talents, Passions and Impact
Look for patterns among your stories. Identify the top 2 talents that you were using in those moments of joy. Think about how these experiences reflected your passions. Consider how you were impacting other people in those moments. Maybe your stories reveal a pattern of creativity or a talent for leadership or a desire to change the world in a way that is meaningful to you. That is you at your best!

3. The World as an Ideal Place
Once you know your talents, your passions and how you want to make an impact on other people, the next step is to imagine that the world is ideal. This is a wonderful way to get out of your box and think BIG. What is your role in making the world an ideal place? Why does that feel important to you?

Perhaps when you do this exercise, you hear voice of your internal censor who may be telling you that you cannot possibly make a living making the world a better place. Recognize that voice and tell your inner critic to take a hike! Listening to that voice is one of the top reasons that people remain in careers and relationships that do not fulfill them. If you are committed to creating the life that you want, that voice needs to go!

4. Your Life Purpose Statement
Combine these elements in the following sentence:

"My purpose in life is to use my (top 2 talents) to (how I impact others) in order to (how I want to make the world an ideal place) because (why that is important to me)."

Let's say that you are a business professional with a talent for using your creative thinking to inspire other people to be their best. You also love being seen as an expert. Your two biggest passions are the arts and your relationships with close friends. Your ideal world is filled with people who make and appreciate art and music. Your life purpose statement might look like this:

"My purpose is to use my creativity and expertise to inspire and empower others to fill the world with art and music because the world is a better place with the arts."

How to Use Your Life Purpose Statement

Congratulations! You now have your life purpose statement that reflects how you want to use your talents in service of a mission that impacts people in the way that feels most important to you.
Knowing your life purpose might inspire you to seek out new career opportunities so that you could use your creative talents, as well as your expertise and leadership abilities in the service of your mission. Your options might include teaching, leading workshops, consulting, coaching or heading up an organization with a mission to promote the arts. Armed with this clear mission, you are much more likely to be motivated to seek out new opportunities and thereby achieve the fulfillment that is currently lacking in your life.

If you are not ready to make an immediate career move, you could seek out volunteer opportunities with organizations whose mission advances your vision of a world filled with art and music. It might also lead you to take an art or a music class. Or, perhaps you can teach a weekend or a night class as an adjunct professor at a local college, especially since you like being seen as an expert. These activities could also further your passion for relationships since it would expand your network to include people who share your passion for the arts.

Enjoy the clarity that comes with knowing your purpose and be fearless as you seek out the opportunities that will enable you to live your best self!

 

(C) Astrid Baumgardner 2010

 

 

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Astrid Baumgardner, JD, PCC is a professional life coach and lawyer, Coordinator of Career Strategies and Lecturer at the Yale School of Music and the founder and President of Astrid Baumgardner Coaching + Training, which is dedicated to helping musicians, lawyers and creative professionals take charge of their lives and experience authentic success.  In addition to her work at YSM and her individual coaching practice, Astrid presents workshops at leading conservatories and law firms on topics including Career Planning, Goal-Setting, Time Management, Dynamic Communication, Conflict Management and  Personal Branding and Networking.  She is the author of numerous articles on the various aspects of how to achieve and live authentic success.